It’s time for our annual discussion of the Holiday bonus.I pine for the days of my spiritual ancestor Ebenezer, who was offended at the expectation that he would pay Cratchit a whole day’s wages without receiving any work in return. One year I tried telling my staff to “make sure that you are in all the earlier the next day.” (It didn’t work.)
Today, the expectation of employees is that they will not only be paid for the day, but that there should be something more to show that they are really appreciated. That might be a monetary gift, or as is the custom in many small businesses, the “year-end bonus.”
Year end bonuses may theoretically be tied to profits, but since the year really hasn’t ended, they are often just subjective gifts. Owners give themselves some vague justification (the employees don’t need one) such as “We’ve had a good year” or, if cash flow is tight, “We’ve had a tough year.” They then consider seniority, or salary, or what the employee got last year, or the phase of the moon or some other specious excuse for measurement that has almost nothing to do with actual performance metrics, and they attach a dollar number to it.
From the employees’ perspective, the year-end bonus comes in two flavors. 1) More than I got last year, or 2) less than I got last year.
Knowing that, many bosses sit with last year’s table of bonuses, determining whether each should be increased or decreased, and by what percentage in comparison to others. They labor in the incredible belief that this single figure will serve as a performance review, reinforcement for good performers, warnings to those on the fence, recognition for (recent) past achievements, organizational bonding, retention incentive, cultural reinforcement, and a giant leap towards goodwill for all mankind.
Then the owner complains for two weeks that no one said “thank you.” Why should they? No one is sure if what they got was good or bad. They don’t know how they were measured, or whether they were at the top or bottom of the totem pole. No employee wants to look like an idiot by thanking the boss for what might have been a warning.
The holidays are a time for giving gifts. A gift is a token of your esteem for someone. It isn’t supposed to be determined by performance. It isn’t supposed to be calculated as just a little bit nicer or just a little bit smaller than the gift you gave to the next person. It isn’t supposed to be a major part of their family’s income.
Incentive or entitlement? The correct answer is “neither.” If you give out bonuses for performance, or really allocate a portion of profits for the employees, do it after the holidays. Keep the spirit of the season separate from incentives by giving gifts. They should be modest, and fairly even across the board. Make sure you call them gifts. When people know that they’ve received a present, they are more likely to say “thank you.”











Yesterday I was “involuntarily terminated” for the first time in my 55yr life…no one saw it coming. Anyway, today, still in quite a state of shock, I realize what high hurtles must be vaulted, in addition to the futility of engaging in a job search during the holiday season: filing (and hopefully qualifying) for UI; researching, deciding how to continue, and actually paying for, continued medical insurance which is mandatory in the state where I live; encouraging supervisors, colleagues, and professional associates to provide written recommendations while they are preparing for or are away for the holidays; and coping with depressed immediate family members; just to name a few. Had my employer waited until after the holiday season to terminate me, I could have been spared all these additional, time consuming, challenges and appropriately spent this most holy time of year in the joyful company of family and friends (many of whom are my co-workers). Employee termination during the holidays is an act of spiritual robbery that has a devastating impact which is farther reaching and longer lasting than termination at any other time of year 🙁
I’m sorry for your pain, Sarah. Unexpected termination at any time of year is a terrible experience. In cases where it is because of the performance of the business, I certainly promote sufficient severance compensation to carry the former employee through until interviewing starts again in January. If the termination is because an employee didn’t respond to progressive discipline or a performance improvement plan, then I don’t see an obligation to carry someone in the “spirit of the season.” You say that you didn’t see it coming, so I assume either it was the first issue (overall business performance) or your former employer didn’t follow fair and equitable HR practices. From a job search perspective, use those contacts and stay joyful. Even your best friends don’t want to be dragged down at holiday events. Regardless of how you really feel, use this social time to act excited about making a change, and ask those in your circle outright for connections that might lead to new opportunities. My heartfelt good wishes in your search.